Thursday, August 19, 2010

No freaking wonder...

You:
  • INFPs tend to live in the world of their imagination rather than the real world
  • INFPs are idealistic and future oriented
  • INFPs will typically strongly dislike conflict, especially if repeated
  • Under stress can be quite critical and cynical
  • INFPs will view “conflict” as a distasteful, uncomfortable part of life
  • INFPs will not take the most logical approach to finding the solution
  • INFPs will quickly become depressed by the conflict
  • INFPs will naturally consider the feelings of others in conflict resolution activity until the INFP feels personal (likely idealistic) values are being ignored
  • INFPs will look for “personal” solutions to the conflict first
  • INFPs may overstate the effect of any hurt feelings they may have
  • INFPs will probably take it way too personally
  • INFPs may fail to logic things through enough

In descending order of energy allocation here is INFP function order:
FEELING
INTUITION
SENSING
THINKING

Me:
  • ESFJs center their attention on the here and the now
  • ESFJ likely to be repelled by criticism and negative comments
  • Under stress may become emotional and withdrawn and become critical of self and others
  • ESFJ is very likely to take the conflict personally
  • ESFJ will likely not confront the conflict
  • ESFJ will want to solve the conflict as soon as possible
  • ESFJ likely will focus on the in the now solutions
  • ESFJ will lean toward decision options that can be quickly implemented rather than future oriented
  • ESFJ may not see the potential future concepts of the situation
  • ESFJ are prone to indirectness and thus appear to be manipulative
  • ESFJ struggle if they cannot discuss things calmly and without strife
  • ESFJs will have difficulty with those who openly blame and criticize
In descending order of energy allocation here is ESFJ function order:
FEELING
SENSING
INTUITION
THINKING

How hysterical is it that both of us always "thought" about things last...explains a lot of things, huh?

"Extraverts & Introverts are opposite in how they communicate...Communication differences can create conflict" Oh no DER!

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