Frustrations...

Well, I made it through the day. Huzzah.

I was having a GREAT day, ok, well great considering all the tests and everything, and then Shep just goes and ruins it...

He FINALLY knows, FINALLY. How long have the three of us been talking about it? Me and Cara at least a few weeks, maybe a month, and with DK at least a week or two. Last night we semi talked to him about it but it wasn't our place, so we kept our mouths shut, but she told him today so he knows now and he won't talk about it!!

Ok, things are better than from the time I started this post, but I'm still kinda frustrated...

Sometimes (and DK mentioned this) it seems like we have to be annoyed at him before he'll talk to us. He has to be talking to us as a service for US rather than because it might help HIM.

I also guess part of me being so upset over this---I think I'm probably making a bigger deal out of it than it is---is that I've gotten used to a standard with DK, how I talk to him, how he talks to me, just the communication. And it's different with Shep, and sometimes it's hard to remember that DK is the one that will talk to me no matter what, all the time, whenever I need him, and Shep needs some more coaxing, not much of the talker, and would rather ask questions than talk about himself. I guess me and DK get each other more, I'm still trying to figure out Shep sometimes.